How Death Doulas
Support Families in Marin
When someone you love is dying, the experience can feel overwhelming. Families carry grief, worry, and exhaustion all at once. A death doula provides steadiness in the midst of it, a presence that is calm, compassionate, and unafraid to walk this road with you.
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How I Support Families:
Every family’s needs are different, but here is how I often help:
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Communication
I help families organize their thoughts and questions for providers, and support open, honest conversations with one another. -
Planning & Choices
I guide discussions around medical wishes, rituals, and next steps so families don’t feel lost or unprepared. -
Preparation
I gently help everyone understand what is likely to come, offering steadiness amidst the uncertainty. -
Education & Resources
I explain what supports are available hospice, palliative care, grief groups, home funeral guides and connect families with trusted local services. -
Caregiver Support
I walk alongside those carrying the daily weight of caregiving, offering encouragement, perspective, and reminders that they are not alone.
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I can meet with you virtually or in person. Sometimes what helps most is simply having someone to talk to, someone calm, experienced, and present in the midst of chaos.
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Not Every Doula Is the Same
The word doula is a broad one. Some doulas focus only on paperwork or grief support, others on vigil or ritual. I support both the dying and their families because both need care, both need guidance, and both need presence.
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If your family is facing the end of life, you do not have to carry it alone. I would be honored to walk with you.
